Can doctors check if i had sex with my girlfriend?

Question

Can doctors check if i had sex with my girlfriend?
Me and my girlfriend are both virgins and we have planned to have sex for the first time at christmas because we are in a long distance relationship. We have both agreed on it but her parents are going away fro christmas and my girlfriend and i will be staying at her grandparents place. Her mom told her no sex whatsoever and she will take her to the doctor to check if she had sex or not. Is it possible that the doctor can check this?

Answer

No. The only way theyll be able to tell is if A she tells them, B she has a STI or C is pregnant. As you were both virgins you can discount the second. Seeing if the hymen is broken is an outdated and inaccurate test. The hymen can be broken by sports, using tampons, and other various activities. brbrIf the doctor asks if shes had sex she should tell the truth. The doctor cant tell her parents due to doctorpatient confidentiality, and not telling him means hes working without the full facts. Doctors dont ask questions just because theyre nosy. brbrThe only thing Id say is, make sure youre both ready,make sure youre both protected, and take it slow.